Bestselling author and award-winning filmmaker Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein has announced a special screening for her new film, 'I Had An Affair With My Husband.' The screening will be free and open to the public on Wednesday, July 1, at 6 p.m. at Basie Center Cinemas Theatre, 36 White Street, Red Bank, NJ.
The film explores a unique and humorous dynamic between a married couple. The wife finds herself falling in love with a new voice her husband has developed, which leads to an improved intimate life but also triggers intense jealousy in the husband toward his own voice. The narrative follows their journey as they navigate these unusual feelings, eventually seeking help from a therapist to address the disconnect between the husband's persona and this new 'identity.' Ultimately, the couple reaches an honest understanding, realizing that while the voice is a fantasy they can occasionally enjoy—and perhaps even expand upon with other personas—their real love for one another remains the foundation of their relationship. The film is a lighthearted romp that uses an unusual scenario to explore real themes of honesty and fantasy within a marriage.
Dr. Holstein, a positive psychologist, stated, 'Both myself and my husband, Dr. Russell Holstein, are very excited about the film. The film developed in our minds as we found ourselves reacting to some things that happened to ourselves. Without giving the plot away, let me just say that the story that developed was one that we lived through. We were the patients in real life that had to work through what we felt. As psychologists, we ended up believing that there are many facets to romance that are difficult but also can be fun and amazing. And this is so important as most people in a relationship really hope it can work.'
This film makes clear how some amount of confusion can also lead to fun and challenges that can be handled. In fact, get ready to laugh your way through this film. It is funny and reveals how some of life's romantic difficulties can be handled and better understood. The film will be released in late June 2026.
In addition to the film, Dr. Holstein is offering a no-charge ebook giveaway. Her book 'Women's Freedom, Unfinished Love Stories, 2nd Edition' explores the struggles and desires of young women in the 1960s: the complexities of sexuality, identity, and self-discovery. In this compelling book, Dr. Holstein introduces readers to three college students navigating the intricacies of their sexual energies and the paths to their futures. Their journeys are a mirror to the experiences of women throughout history, highlighting the universal longings and challenges that have shaped previous generations. Readers may find themselves reflecting on their own rights, needs, and the societal influences that have shaped their perceptions. The ebook version will be available at no charge on June 28 and 29, 2026, at Amazon.
Dr. Holstein is known for wrapping positive psychology concepts in engaging media forms, including bestselling books, award-winning films, self-esteem workbooks, podcasts, and TED-style talks. Her work has contributed to helping children and parents develop life skills and self-esteem. Her latest workbook for kids, 'Secrets,' achieved bestseller status in the 'Teen & Young Adult Nonfiction on Depression' category. Dr. Holstein's cutting-edge presentations can be found on YouTube, Vimeo, and on the Roku channel and Amazon Fire TV, titled 'The Enchanted Self Presents.'
Dr. Holstein has also created The Selfie Showcase, a project from The Selfie Project, allowing young people ages 13 to 18 to voice their opinions on subjects that matter to them, including the pandemic, by creating selfie videos or films using a smartphone. More information about the Selfie Showcase is available at SelfieFilmmakers.com. Selfie videos and selfie films can be uploaded at the site. More information about Dr. Holstein is available at her primary website at EnchantedSelf.com.
